Tobi Fletcher popularly called “the Ofada boy” is
not just an Ofada boy by name, it is a representation of his family genealogy.
Tobi is an original indigene from Ofada town, Obafemi Owode Area of Ogun State,
a place famous for the production of local ofada rice.
With his great
grandfather being among the first set of farmer to plant the ofada rice, Tobi
sure has the ofada blood running in him. He is a graduate of Microbiology
from Olabisi Onabanjo University, where he found his passion.
If you know me personally, you will know that I can cook for Africaπ infact, I have been accused of overfeeding people anyhow I like, lol!π. Inspite of all that though, one food always give me wahala, kilode! π‘π‘πand the most annoying aspect is that; its a very simple food oh.
It can be hard to let the things that other people do to you
slide especially when it seems as if you have become target practice for them
to learn how to treat other people badly. Most times you are tempted to lay a
trap for them to fall into so that you can wreak your vengeance on them. Other
times, you just want to say hurtful things to them so that they can feel the
way you do because it is beginning to seem like your silence or deliberate
ignorance of the payback rules makes you seem like too much a coward. So you
lash back once, and it feels good.
The truth is that while it might feel empowering and strong
at first, soon enough you get tired of always paying back but you are also tired
of being walked upon besides it does feel good to put them in their place.
Being the better person starts with one incident. When
you say no to the urge to hurt someone as much as they hurt you even once, you
will discover that filling your mind with negative thoughts full of anger and
revenge takes up all the space in your mind for good and positive thoughts.
Keeping this in mind, you would find it very easy to live life for yourself
instead of living it for other people and trying to please them at the cost of
your own happiness. Get yourself a paper and write down all the things you want
to do for yourself and then proceed to do it. Live to please yourself….. and
learn these things just like I have…
Once school is over, you discover that real life is extremely busy πππ. Between bitching sessions about Buhari and his alleged incompetence in ruling the Country, or fuming at your ex’s new polyamorous lifestyle on Snapchat and being at the desk for a 9-5 job that stresses you so much you have no social life, who has time to actually form an coherent opinion about all the art constantly on view? Certainly not me! I know next to nothing about Art to be honest π
My comments about art range from “That looks nice” to “Can you imagine that in your living room?!”.
But, the one thing I’ve learned through my exposure to art through my work as a blogger is that; despite not being any sort of art expert, it is still possible to develop a certain appreciation for the arts, like this one made by talented multidisciplinary artist Ini Oluwa, the art got my attention and I couldn't resist sitting him down for an interview, so as to probe his mind,about what makes him tick....kindly read excerpts from the interview below:
You asked for it. Now it is here...... You don't have to break a sweat or your bank to have your dream wedding. You too can benefit from this Easter Promo. All you need is Just 1.5million Naira for 400 guest. And guess what it covers?
On completion of my secondary school education at the age of
14 years, I barely knew how to cook. I was only able to cook rice, beans and
make Eba..And no! I don’t love food, for those wondering…lol!π
All that changed
when I got to my granny’s place in Ibadan, there my male cousin taught me how
to make Moi-moi π and I learnt, how to make those extremely soft “amala” that
goes with Gbegiri soup on my visit to one mama put joint…I practically memorized
my way to cooking…before I could say Jack, I made my first pot of soup and
paraded it around the house. Grandma praised me to the heavens as if I won a
Jackpot and I reveled in the praises like a proud peacock πͺππ(she later told me,
after I went pro, that, she was “yimu”ing at me..that at my age! ) but who
cares….me sha don learn how to cook….ππ
As time went on, I discovered food condiments, I realized
they save me a lot of stress and make my food very delicious with little
efforts. For instance, I close from work
by 5.30, and despite getting home by 6.20, I can easily whip up a plate of
jollof ready to be eaten By 7.30 pm….thanks to spices after all…..”Obetodun, owo lo pa”...(a
delicious pot of soup is money well spent)π
Obètódùn is one of the special brands that one will forever
be grateful to have come across, as they are a lifesaver to many wives and
homes especially when it comes to food, and having a sit-down with the Creative
beauty & brain behind the brand is an enlightening experience, please read
excerpts below….
There are things we must carry and handle with extra- carefulness because these things are fragile and once broken, it is not easy to put back together and once some of these things get broken, they can lead to huge damage and destiny wastage.
Christiana Augustine, a female Nigerian graduate, has joined the list of people who inspire others with her ways of life after she took up the business of driving a Keke Napep to make ends meet and stay alive amidst the turbulence suffered in this economy.
Who is fragile like a bud yet strong like an iron rod? Who is beauty and yet destroys all beasts? Who weakness is her strength? And strength, her weakness?
Her eyes can speak volume and her words can silence a room.
She is the caregiver and the punisher. She is stronger than your strongest breath. She is a believer and a rouge. She is the saint and the sinner. She never gives up hope. She is the praying mother, the hopeful wife and the beautiful lady. ππππShe is a woman. She is YOU! Happy International Women's day to every beautiful woman out there, we are the real MVP!!!
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